Rules to lead by

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Talk half as much — LISTEN!
Ask questions — instead of barking directives
Power Up — in every conversation, leave the other party more energized
Support if you can't persuade
Never insult — even in the privacy of your own mind
Never lose your cool, ever!
Never lie or mislead
Apologize — if you even just have an inkling that you should — it is a sign of your humanity
Assume positive intent
Be last to make your point (if it is important)
Allow screw ups above the waterline